Hi there everyone! As Mija mentioned already I did indeed write this intro recently in anticipation of being added to this site. I'm pretty excited to be here, so I hope I have something of value to add! Anyway, all the relevant details are bellow. I will wait nervously for your feedback!
I'm a young woman in my early twenties. I live in the middle of the USA with my family. My family consists of three children and three adults. No, we don't have grandma living with us. We have what is called a polyamorous relationship. Both myself and the other woman are involved with the same man. Are you scandalized? My parents are. This is an ongoing source of drama in my life. I'm sure you will hear about it again.
Most relevant to PB readers- what we have together is a Master/slave dynamic. In this instance He is the Master, and we are the slaves. In the most simple terms this means that He gets to control whatever he wants and we get to, well, obey. When we fail at the obedience thing is when discipline comes into play. Yes, it's usually painful.
There are some external things that go with being a slave. We address Him as "Sir." We sleep on the floor. We (read I) take care of most of the housework. We usually don't get to watch what we want on TV. Most of these things are actually more subtle than you might expect, though, and except for there being three of us we don't look that different from any of those sappy 1950s TV shows.
For me, the real meat behind M/s is the mental side of things. It has to do with being led and controlled. It has to do with structure and being pushed to do my best both for myself and for the one who owns me. It is also about knowing that I need to live this way in order to achieve my highest potential. It is kinky to be sure, but it's also an acknowledgment of my personality and how I thrive.
I am the stay at home member of the family. I care for the kiddos and make sure the house is in shape. I plan the meals and make the grocery lists. I wash the clothes and diapers. I'm a regular Suzie Homemaker. Except, well, I'm not.
I try my hardest but I'm not a natural. This is very sad for me because all my life it's been my dream to be a stay at home mom. Now that I am living it I'm discovering that I don't have a natural ability to see dirt in obscure corners of the living room. I also don't always remember when the sheets were washed last, or notice how much toilet paper is left in the main bathroom. I forget to iron His shirts and he runs out. The plants sometimes go un-watered. Can you guess what types of things I am likely to be punished for? Still, the family gets fed and I almost always manage to get the kitchen floor mopped.
I think this is a pretty general introduction to me. I am not 100% convinced that I'm a good fit for the PB because the life I lead is in some ways drastically different than many of the other contributors. However, they have all assured me that I do belong here and they seem to think I have an interesting perspective to add. I guess you readers will be the judge of that. For now, I'll just say , "Hi" and, "Thanks for having me here."
