This is just a quick note based on some comments we've had here recently. We all freely to consent and in many cases initiated discipline / punishment relationships.
This is not a blog about wives and girlfriends who get beaten because that's the way wives and girlfriends should be treated by the men or women in their lives. It's a real life discussion (albeit rather a slow one lately) by women who freely choose this because, for whatever reasons (it varies -- just ask us, we've been writing for six years here alone) it works for us.
How does discipline / punishment work for me? I like it. I like the way it makes me feel. How does it make me feel? Focused. Loved. Respected. Looked after. Powerful. That Paul punishes me makes me, well, feel lust in my heart toward him. If he decided he didn't want to do it anymore, I would feel the loss. I asked for this -- I love that we have this dynamic between us, want Paul to have the power to punish me if and when he decides to do it.
Go ahead and think me twisted or sick if you want. But don't paint me as an unwilling victim. I won't let you.
